How To Deal With Negative Feedback

Five Strategies For Worship Leaders, My Guest Post for Seedbed Worship Design Collective

Seedbed Opposition

Nobody likes to receive negative feedback or criticism. In this guest post for Seedbed Worship Design Collective, I offer five things to consider when someone criticizes your job as a worship leader.

If you use these five strategies they will help you grow as a leader, serve your congregation better and save your sanity. They are:

  1. Describe the problem.
  2. Discern what’s really going on spiritually.
  3. Get Practical.
  4. Make adjustments.
  5. Persevere.

Read the whole article in depth here.

How To Handle Opposition for the Worship Leader

Got Complaints? Here's a 5 Step Process to Overcome Them

Dear Uncle Robbie,

I’m a tired worship leader ministering at a small church where my husband grew up. I give and give and give and pour out my heart to the Lord. Now, I’m facing opposition from the leadership and congregation at my church. I know it’s a spiritual attack. I know it’s not of the Lord, He values my heart. I know when I give and worship Him, He is glorified. My question is – What to do next? I need to know if what I’m doing is the best thing for the congregation. I need prayer on how to handle this. Is what I’m doing the most God honoring thing? I love worshipping and I love giving Him the praise. 

Signed, 
A Struggling Saint


Dear Struggling Saint,

First, I want you to know you are not alone. The Lord will be with you. He does value your heart.

Are You Called To Lead Worship?

My Guest Post for Worship Leader Magazine

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It can be quite a challenge to discern the will of God for your life, especially when you’re starting out or in transition.

In this article published by Worship Leader Magazine on-line, I share my experiences and seven ideas that answer the question: “How Do You Know When You’re Called To Lead Worship?”. 

My thesis is that, if you are called to lead worship, you will have:

  1. Desire
  2. Ability
  3. A Vision
  4. Confirmation
  5. Joy and Peace
  6. Opportunity
  7. Passion

I unpack these ideas with anecdotes from my personal story in rest of the article on the Worship Leader Magazine website here.

A youth pastor wrote me after reading the post and suggested this would be an excellent resource for anyone trying to decide a future direction in any area of life. If that’s you or someone you know, check it out.

Bless ya!

To Obey Is Better Than Sacrifice

05 Five Epic Worship Fails: King Saul Disobeys

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Final installment! In this series we’ve been looking at Five Epic Worship Fails from scripture,  what we can learn from them, and how we can apply their lessons in our lives and ministry. Make sure you read the Introduction first!

Epic Fail Number Five: King Saul Disobeys (1 Samuel 13:7-15
1 Samuel 15)

In the session were going to be looking at two episodes from the life of Saul in the Old Testament.

Background of the story.  Saul is the first King of Israel. He was anointed, and he has some early victories in his life and reign. But he has a bit of an inferiority complex and it caught up with him. Ultimately, His character could not sustain this calling.

Let’s look at the first story. 

National Worship Leaders Conference, VA

May 17 -19 I’ll be attending the National Worship Leaders Conference in Centreville, VA (http://nwlconf.com/) with the theme “Teach Us To Pray”.

You can watch the free live stream here: http://nwlconf.com/watch-now/

I’m looking forward to seminars with Leonard Sweet, Rich Kirkpatrick, Ray Jones and many others!

 

 

Lip Service Won’t Cut It

04 Five Epic Worship Fails: Jesus Confronts The Pharisees

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In this series we’re looking at Five Epic Worship Fails from scripture,  what we can learn from them, and how we can apply their lessons in our lives and ministry. Make sure you read the Introduction first!

Epic Fail Number Four: Lip Service: Jesus Confronts The Pharisees (Mark 7:1-13, Matthew 15:8-9)

Background of the story.
For some time now Jesus has been going around doing his earthly ministry of proclaiming the kingdom of God, teaching and healing. He is starting to get into some debate and controversy with the religious establishment, the Sadducees and Pharisees. This exchange cuts right to the heart of the “religious spirit”.  

Integrity Matters

03 Five Epic Worship Fails: Ananias and Sapphira

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In this series we’re looking at Five Epic Worship Fails from scripture,  what we can learn from them, and how we can apply their lessons in our lives and ministry. Make sure you read the Introduction first!

Epic Fail Number Three: Ananias & Sapphira (Acts 5:1- 11)

Background.

Here’s the scene. The book of Acts is all about the birth of the church. Jesus has been resurrected from the dead. Then the Holy Spirit falls upon the disciples at Pentecost. (Acts 2) The church is set on fire. Jesus followers are going out and healing people, signs wonders and miracles are happening. All heaven is breaking loose, and the church is growing exponentially. It is an exciting time.

A spirit of unity and generosity had become part of their spiritual DNA. The end of Acts 4 describes the culture of early Christian community and it’s a beautiful thing.

You Gotta Do God’s Work, God’s Way!

02: Five Epic Worship Fails: David & The Ark

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In this series we’re looking at Five Epic Worship Fails from scripture,  what we can learn from them, and how we can apply their lessons in our lives and ministry. Make sure you read the Introduction first! http://www.robstill.com/five-epic-worship-fails-and-what-we-can-learn-from-them/

Epic Fail Number Two: David and The Ark (2 Samuel 6, 1Chronicles 13 & 15)

Background of the story. This is the account of when David returns the Ark of the covenant from its captivity with the Philistines and brings it to what would become Jerusalem.

This is something that had been in David’s heart for a long time. He had been anointed as a young man to become king, then spent many many years in the wilderness awaiting for his destiny to be fulfilled, and finally mean King Saul dies. Now it is his moment and the first thing he wants to do is go get that ark and bring it back where it belongs. 

12 Essential Scriptures to Disciple Worship Volunteers

My Guest Post for Seedbed Worship Design Collective

As I write this article, we are in the Eastertide season, the 50 days between Resurrection Sunday and Pentecost. One of the traditional stories that would be preached during this season is the “Great Commandment” that Jesus gave for his followers to “go and make disciples” (Matthew 28:19).

A disciple is a believer who is growing in his faith and his love for Jesus on an on-going basis. She is a learner who is in a lifelong process of maturing and being transformed by the Lord.

Note: This is a guest post I wrote for the Seedbed Worship Design Collective, you can find the original article here. 

Worship Ministry Insights from Cain & Able

01 : Five Epic Worship Fails: The Story of Cain & Able

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In this series we’re looking at Five Epic Worship Fails from scripture,  what we can learn from them, and how we can apply their lessons in our lives and ministry. Make sure you read the Introduction first! http://www.robstill.com/five-epic-worship-fails-and-what-we-can-learn-from-them/

Epic Fail Number One: The Story of Cain & Able (Genesis 4)

Background of the story. We are at the beginning of the story of God. He’s created the world in Genesis 1 and 2. He’s created Adam and Eve,  they’ve already sinned and been kicked out of the garden of Eden. Now they have their first children, Cain and Abel.

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Abel was a herdsman and Cain a farmer. Cain brought an offering to God from the produce of his farm.

Abel also brought an offering, but from the firstborn animals of his herd, “choice cuts of meat”.

Cain brought fruits and vegetables whereas Able offered steak and hamburgers.

The scripture then says that “God liked Abel and his offering, but Cain and his offering didn’t get his approval.” Genesis 4:5

Why?

Why would God except one offering and reject the other? What’s up with that?

Does God like barbecue more than salads?

Now let’s look at the rest of the story. 

Five Epic Worship Fails and What We Can Learn From Them

00 Introduction: Why This Matters; Concepts of Worship, The Bible & Theology

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[Note: This is a 6 part blog series based on a recent webinar workshop I taught for WorshipTeamCoach.com entitled “Five Epic Worship Fails and we can learn from them.” It is intended to be used as a biblical training resource for your worship team. These are offered as a series of short videos (5 to 10 minutes each) with a study guide and questions you can use to facilitate conversations for growth. You can find that a replay of the original webinar and a link the resource here: Five Epic Worship Fails Replay. ] 

In the series we will look at Five Epic Worship Fails from scripture,  what we can learn from them, and how we can apply their lessons in our lives and ministry.